Wear comfortable and sensible shoes to the wedding event.
If there is one thing that you should know about wedding photography, it would have to be the fact that as a Los Angeles wedding photographer, you will have to move around, walk around, and at times even run around a lot in order for you to be able to get the best possible shots for the bride and the groom.
You will be walking like you will not believe is possible during the wedding day event. Make sure that you are able to prepare for all that walking and running around by wearing really comfortable shoes. Your feet will thank you at the end of the day for being considerate and for pre-empting the kind of abuse that they will be getting. The temptation to whip out those killer high heels or feet squeezing brogues is quite understandable, at best. After all, you will be attending a wedding.
Weddings are formal and quite black tie in general so the aim to blend in is quite natural.
You will have to keep tabs with the reality though that you are not there as a guest. You are attending as a service provider and your aim to deliver high quality service should trump any vanities or aesthetics at the end of the day. Wearing comfortable shoes does not have to mean that you will have to disregard style altogether. There are a lot of shoes out there that offer both style and comfort at the same time.
Mange the crowd early on and take control of the situation.
Whether you are willing to admit it or not, the over eager and over zealous family member has ruined far more wedding photos than you will dare to believe. There will always be that one person out there who thinks he is actually helping out but the truth of the matter is the fact that he is only getting in the way of the wedding photographer. If you get to come across this particular kind of personality during the wedding event, you must muster up enough confidence and courage to really talk to them and take charge of the situation. That person will tell people how to pose, where to pose, who should be part of a group photo and who should not be in the photo, and so on and so forth. Thank them for the help that they are offering but insist that you have got everything pretty much under control.
Tell them that you appreciate their inputs and will make sure that you keep a mental note of that for the rest of the event but that you will highly appreciate it if you can go through with your scheduled shots first. Be firm enough to command attention but not too firm to the point where they will think you are being impolite.
Talk freely and openly with the bride and with the groom.
Really sit the couple down and discuss the wedding photography details with them at length. Make sure that they know exactly what they are signing you up for and make sure that they know exactly what they are getting. Do not embellish anything. Do not over accentuate with adjectives or flowery words. Be straight to the point and really be concise and give it straight to the clients.